{"id":126,"date":"2025-08-29T15:32:47","date_gmt":"2025-08-29T15:32:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.waltertansini.nl\/?page_id=126"},"modified":"2025-08-29T15:32:47","modified_gmt":"2025-08-29T15:32:47","slug":"blog-keeping-vs-honoring-promises","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.waltertansini.nl\/index.php\/blog-keeping-vs-honoring-promises\/","title":{"rendered":"Blog: keeping vs honoring promises"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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The Subtle but Crucial Difference Between Keeping and Honouring Promises<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Over the years I\u2019ve come to see that integrity in organisations is often described in very simple terms:\u00a0keeping promises<\/em>. On the surface, this seems sensible. After all, what could show reliability more clearly than doing what you said you would do? Yet in my research and professional experience, I\u2019ve learned that this view is too narrow. Real integrity is not just about keeping promises, but about\u00a0honouring<\/em>\u00a0them.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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The difference may sound subtle, but it changes everything. When the focus is solely on keeping promises, people feel pressure to deliver at all costs. Problems are hidden, shortcuts taken, and commitments narrowed down to their most literal interpretation. Ironically, this attempt to appear reliable can make an organisation less trustworthy, because it discourages openness and learning.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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The difference may sound subtle, but it changes everything.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n

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Honouring promises, on the other hand, asks for something deeper. It is about recognising that circumstances change, risks emerge, and not every promise can be kept exactly as intended. What matters is how we respond. Do we communicate openly when things go wrong? Do we stay committed to the relationship and the purpose behind the promise? Do we involve others in finding a responsible way forward? When we do, integrity is not lost\u2014it is strengthened.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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I\u2019ve seen this distinction play out in practice. A project manager who feels bound only to \u201ckeep\u201d a deadline may drive the team to exhaustion or quietly compromise quality. Another manager, committed to honouring the promise, will address risks openly, renegotiate where needed, and keep trust intact\u2014even if delivery shifts. The second approach is more demanding, but it builds far greater confidence and resilience.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n

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This distinction between keeping and honouring promises lies at the heart of my\u00a0Organisational Integrity Framework<\/em>. The framework builds on virtues such as courage, authenticity, and character, and shows how promises link across every level of an organisation. By shifting the focus from narrowly keeping promises to truly honouring them, organisations can move beyond compliance and KPI-chasing, towards alignment, trust, and sustainable performance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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